Abuse, A Coverup, and Christian “Domestic Discipline”: S6E28

Welcome to the Unlovely Truth. I'm your host church safety advocate and coach Lori Morrison. I help ministry leaders assess and address the 12 critical safety issues that exist in every church. Our churches need to be the safest places in our communities, so my mission on this podcast is to give you actionable steps to make your house of worship a true sanctuary in your community. Let’s investigate the unlovely truth about real crime stories happening in real churches. I've got three cases to explore today, so let's dive right in. 

 

I'm not a fan of horror movies. There’s enough real-life stuff that scares me so why would I look for fake scary stuff. The episode proves that we’ve got to be on the lookout for horrific happenings even in our churches. So why do I think it’s important to talk about the things I talk about on the podcast?

 

Numbers 21:6-9 (CSB)

Then the Lord sent poisonous snakes among the people, and they bit them so that many Israelites died. The people then came to Moses and said, “We have sinned by speaking against the Lord and against you. Intercede with the Lord so that he will take the snakes away from us.” And Moses interceded for the people.

 

Then the Lord said to Moses, “Make a snake image and mount it on a pole. When anyone who is bitten looks at it, he will recover.” So Moses made a bronze snake and mounted it on a pole. Whenever someone was bitten, and he looked at the bronze snake, he recovered.

 

The children of Israel were whining, again, about the state they found themselves in. Never did it seem to occur to them that THEY were the reason things weren’t going so good. It would get a lot worse once the snakes made their appearance. And I’m fascinated to think about the idea that God “sent” these snakes. Was it that he commanded them to go and bite the people, or that He had been restraining them to protect the people and now since they were murmuring against God, he simply got out of the way like they seemed to say they wanted?

 

Ouch. That hits pretty close to home doesn’t it?

 

But God is merciful and gave the people a way out of the mess they’d created. If they would look up in their distress at the bronze snake, they would live. Let’s think hard about this. They had to look at the very thing that was killing them to live. 

 

I think that as a whole, the church has whined and grumbled about taking the protection of the vulnerable among us as seriously as we need to. We need to hear these stories, these things that have the potential to strike and wound the church, if we want the church to live and thrive.

 

So I want to ask you - are you willing to be a person who speaks out? Who tries to get your leaders to look at problems they don’t want to look at? If you are, please reach out to me. I’d love to help you on that important journey.

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Read more about today’s cases:

 

Volunteer youth pastor also a pimp

 

Another denomination covers up abuse

 

Spiritual abuse against women